Live-In Domestic Couple Jobs in the UK – Dream or Nightmare?

We are Craig and Kirsten Bruun.

For over 20 years, we dedicated ourselves to the unique world of live-in domestic couple jobs in five very different households. It’s more than just a job—it’s a lifestyle that allows you to work together, live in beautiful surroundings, and work for employers who treat you with respect, fairness, and kindness. And for most of those 20 years, it was exactly that.

But in early 2024, Craig, then 54, was fired by an employer we had once trusted—a betrayal that not only took away our livelihood and home but also severed ties with colleagues we had once called friends. After six years of dedication to making their lives better, they sought to erase everything we had worked so hard to build.

It was an experience we never could have imagined, and one that forced us to question everything about a lifestyle we had once loved. This gruelling chapter of our journey revealed how vulnerable live-in domestic couples can be—and it’s why we’re now committed to informing, supporting, and preparing others to face the unique challenges of this profession.

We write about finding work with great employers and building a happy, sustainable life in live-in domestic roles. On our site, you’ll find advice on:

• How to promote yourselves online.
• Working with domestic staffing agencies.
• Preparing for interviews.
• The lifestyle and what to expect when pursuing this type of work.

To make job-hunting easier, we’ve launched a dedicated site for live-in jobs where candidates can securely create profiles and upload their CVs. This allows private household employers and agencies to find couples whose skills and locations match their needs. We also provide guidance on typical responsibilities, salaries, and accommodation, giving you the tools to make informed decisions about your next role.