A Guide to Domestic Couple Jobs in the UK

Domestic couples, sometimes called housekeeping couples, are partners who work for affluent employers. Historically, these roles were filled by married husband-and-wife teams, but modern placements are gradually reflecting more diversity, with same-sex couples and other pairings becoming more common. While this trend is progressing faster in other roles, such as seasonal or hospitality positions, domestic roles are slowly catching up.

Domestic couples are highly valued in high-net-worth (HNW) and ultra-high-net-worth (UHNW) households for their ability to deliver comprehensive, personalised service covering tasks often performed by housekeepers, gardeners, drivers and handymen. Learn more about Typical Roles and Responsibilities.

Domestic couples typically live on site. Rural roles often provide cottages or separate flats, while city roles might include accommodation inside the employer’s residence, such as a wing or basement flat. Their adaptability and presence are especially sought after by employers who require a discreet, high-level service to manage the day-to-day household needs.

The UK, especially London, has long attracted HNW and UHNW individuals, thanks to its status as a financial centre and its appeal to international elites. In 2023, the UK was home to around 4,750 UHNWIs—each with a net worth exceeding £23 million—making it one of the top destinations for the ultra-wealthy. As wealth has risen globally, City AM reported that the UK’s HNWI population grew to 609,400 in 2021, underscoring the country’s strong concentration of affluent individuals. This mix of established British landowners and new multimillionaires drawn to the UK’s dynamic economy and cultural heritage drives strong demand for experienced domestic couples. (Source: City AM Report)

The popularity of British period dramas like Downton Abbey has also fuelled a renewed interest in live-in domestic roles among international elites, particularly in London’s prestigious West End. As noted by Time, these portrayals of the classic British household have inspired wealthy foreigners to adopt elements of traditional British service, with many seeking to replicate the classic household setup with dedicated, live-in staff. This trend highlights the enduring appeal of the UK’s rich cultural heritage, which continues to shape modern household management practices. (Sources: Fifty, Altrata, Capgemini, Time)